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Schools students in their last grade always fantasized about the college life that always college life One must enjoy college life, but with conditions. With reference to that, we are going to learn what are the Mistakes That Every Engineering Student Must Avoid.

Mistake Helps Us Grow..!!

Yes it is a famous saying but life is too short to learn by your mistake, you can also learn from other’s mistakes.

In case you are reading this for the first time, let me introduce myself, I am Ronak Prajapati, a chemical engineer having work experience with more than 4 years of and apart from that, I am a tech blogger. Today, in this post, I am going to share my thoughts and my experience on Mistakes That Every Engineering Student Must Avoid. Do give this a read and do share your thoughts on my learnings.

Mistakes That Every Engineering Student Must Avoid

Mistakes are good but only if they happen once and not be repetitive. Mistakes can help us to grow if we give analyze them and learn from them and starts focusing on how not to make that mistake again. Here are some of the learnings that I consider as mistakes and in my opinion, these are the Mistakes That Every Engineering Student Must Avoid.

Not attending classes regularly

For a student not only an engineering student, but a general student, it is vital to attend classes regularly. If you are under impression that we only attend class to take lectures from teachers or professor who reads the topic and you had already covered that topic so attending classes are on no user then you are not. Professors and teachers, the majority of them not only covers the topics but also share their experience. You can get all the details about the topics from books and from the internet, but the real-life and hands-on experience of those professors, you can’t find it anywhere except the class.

You all know that engineering is all about practical execution and without getting at the workplace or industry, how the thing practically works you are not gonna have any idea. So it is important to attend classes regularly.

Now focusing on CGPA

On the internet and even some working professional says that marks don’t matter, you deed tp have knowledge. Yes, I don’t disagree with this statement but don’t agree 100% with this either. In the initial stage when you are a fresher and are CGPA, SPI or CPI whatever you call it, these are the matrix that is really important when you sit in the interview. Not only in the interview, but in resume selection it plays a crucial role.

For a fresher, getting a resume shortlisted or selected is mostly based on two things.

1. CGPA
2. Projects and internships

None of the recruiters wants to hire a weak candidate. As a fresher, you don’t have a field or industrial experience on which basis, you can stand out of crowd, It’s the CGPA only, which can help you to get your resume shortlisted. In a personal interview, the recruiter will analyze you on different other matrix and in that, your CGPA might not play a leading role but to get your resume shortlisted, your marks are extremely important.

Lets us take the example of me, I was an average student and didn’t take my first semester of chemical engineering seriously and because of that, I got a backlog in Maths-1 subject with only 6.57 SPI. After that, I studied hard and clear out that backlog and that was the last backlog in my whole bachelor’s studies.

In our final semester, Deepak Phenolics, a well-renowned industry in the petrochemical sector came to hire us in campus placement. I was really excited and had worked hard to crack the interview as soon as we heard this news that this company is going to come for campus placement. But I got shattered when the company list out the eligible criteria. The candidate must not have any backlog in any semester, this was one of the criteria to become eligible for an interview and as I had one backlog in semester 1, I become ineligible. So although my CGPA was 8.2 till the 7th sem, I can’t sit for an interview in that company.

That’s why you should focus on your studies as because of my low score in semester 1, I got failed without appearing for an interview. You shouldn’t misunderstand this point and take CGPA too seriously and stop other activities. A person should have overall development and this should not be the case where you only focus on CGPA.

Not making Networks

After graduation, you are a fresher, and believe me, getting your first job is gonna be pretty tough. If you got selected in campus placement then you had crossed your initial step of the searching first job, but if by any chance you didn’t get placed by college or university, you will have to search job by your own and it will be a tough task.

As you are new to the industry, you don’t have experience, it you have contacts of the persons working in the same domain, you have a benefit it they refer you. Believe me, now everything works on reference. Your networks will only help you to get references and these references can help you to get jot.

Your network is your net worth

Author Porter Gale teaches you the same in his book Your network is your net worth. So start building new connections and networks.

Not working on yourself

Start working on yourself, this sentence you had heard in my motivational or self-development videos or had read in several self-help books. You will only know the true value of when you stepped out of university and get enter into professional life. Being intelligent or securing the first position in the examination is not the only parameter to build a successful career, things like how confident you are, your communication skills, your nature, your behavior with your colleagues, how you portray yourself also matters.

Hence it is important to work on your personality and make your first impression really good so that you can set into the work culture of the organization you join and show your books the best work of yours.

Use wikipedia more than books

During your engineering students, you need to complete various projected assignments. Having internet access is a facility that can be helpful for a student to get information regarding the topic. The advantage becomes a disadvantage when the person forgot to limit to use the internet and apart from using books to refer topic, they started using Wikipedia and other websites to do copy paste and create a presentation.

There is no harm in using the internet to create projects and presentations, but relying just on Wikipedia to not using books is a problem. So use the internet as an additional means of studying and get the updated information but don’t stop using books. Anyone can write on the internet and there is no check available whether the information available on the internet is authenticate or not. Hence don’t stop using textbooks as information on books is authenticate.

Not working on communication skills

Having knowledge is of no use if you don’t share it with others. Knowledge is useless if you don’t share it with others. It’s not important that you are smart and really know your domain very well. But you have to portray yourself and let others know that you know these things.

If you know something but you don’t know how to present it then it’s of no use. There is a famous saying that

Until or unless you don’t show it won’t sell

This means if you can’t show what you know and how capable you are, nobody will value you.

So start working to build skills and communication skills is one of them that you should not ignore.

Not doing projects and internships

Nowadays, no one wants to teach work instead everyone wants an experienced person so that he or she can contribute to the organization. As all companies and organizations want experienced people, you can show your projects and internships. These can help you to portray your work and a resume with a list of internships and projects included are more likely to be shortlisted.

So apart from studies, you should actively participate in projects and always remain active in seeking opportunities for internships irrespective of whether you will be paid for that or not.

Summing Up

These are some of the Mistakes Engineering Students Make while there are in college and in universities. If you are a university student then do take these tips seriously and start working on it. These might seem worthless but believe me, you will understand this as valuable after you graduate.

Technology is all around us and this pandemic had made us more close to technology as to pass the time we watch TV, to work we use a computer, for education we use mobile. Whether you are a working professional and are on work from or you are a student, we all are facing problems with long screen time, hence here is how to Stop phone addiction.

In todays generation, not even adults, but kids are also seen getting engaged in the mobile phone and they prefer to use mobile phone instead of playing outside. The thing which had make people so engaged in the smartphone is games.

If you had ever give a though to stop phone addiction then the first thing that had came to you mind is “do more things that make you forget to check your phone” But practically it is very difficult.

I get into productivity back in year 2019 where i was scrolling videos on YouTube and get into the video with title “how to get more things done in less time” which was all about how you can be more productive and optimize your time. In that video, the video creator ask us to know amount time you spend on mobile and smartphone.

Before we get into the methods to prevent smartphone addiction, let us understand the mechanism of smartphone apps and why we are hooked to the smartphone screen even though we know that we are killing our productivity.

Why is smartphone so addictive?

Smartphones are not addictive, games and apps installed in your smartphone are making smartphone addictive. If you replace your smartphone with a feature phone, you won’t spend a lot of time using your phone.

Apps and games are designed in such a way that the user gets hooked to it. Apps, social media and games keep you engaged by showing feeds and news based on your interest. As you open and play a video on youtube, you keep on getting videos suggestion based on your interest and this makes you spend more time and instead of watching a single video, you end up watching multiple videos.

As a tech blogger, I had tried various apps and software and as i got into the games of productivity, I had specifically given the emphasis on making use of smartphones without getting addicted to phones. Hereafter experimenting with certain things for 8 long months, I am condensing my tips in this article.

Actionable steps to stop phone addiction

Now as you know what is cell phone addiction you learn how to break phone addiction as soon as possible. There are number of side effects of smartphone addiction but let’s us not get into this. We start this with an excersise i.e How much time do you spend on your smartphone.

1. Check your apps usage time

Humans minds need reasons to do something the best thing that can motivated you to stop the smartphone use is to realize that you are using your phone way to much. Apps developers develop their apps which trick users mind and make them addicted to their apps. There is nothing wrong in that as they earn bread and butter from the user retention time but its users responsibility to know when to stop using apps.

How much time Android phone is used is Android phone and even iPhone collected data of for how many time a user had used the phone and it is known as Screen on time. In new phone or even 4-5 years, the old phone has this feature. This data will help you to know how much time you spend using smartphone.

If you are on the lastest version of android then you can follow the below steps

1. Unlock you android phone and open setting
2. Now in search option, type Digital Wellbeing and tap to open it
3. Now tap on Show data to view your android apps usage

If you don’t have this feature then you can download ActiveDash

Note – I had purposefully installed game to show you how a data look like.

2. Uninstall Games from Smartphone

Games are addictive and unlike other apps, developers of the games develop games in such a way that it keeps gamers enggaged. There is science behing why games are addictive which we will discuss some other day. Nevertheless, i dont need to explain why it is so. Most of you had experience it.

Playing games in limit will not cause you harm, it starts creating problem when the peson forget the limit and work or studies are getting affected by it. Games can also makes you anti-social and cause you metally ill.

It is a good way to allot time slots for games or reward yourself after completing a certain task. In case its hard for you to leave mobile gams as you started to play and you end up spending hours then its better to uninstall games from your smartphone.

3. Limit dependency from mobile

Mobile comes with various feature and function which has replaced many things such as FM, TV, watch, Alarm clock and many more. Smartphone comes with clock app preinstalled which not only show time and date, but also serves the purpose of alarm clock and stop watch, You can also set the timer. People prefer to use mobile phone alarm feature over analong clock or alarm clock.

There is noting wrong in setting alarm in mobile phone but this make user to use phone as a last ting prior to get into bed and the first thing to touch before getting up in the morning.

You guys will agreed to me how many time you pick your phone to set alarm and eneded up spendin time on using other apps such as replying to whatsapp contact or chating with them or watch youtube videos as you got notification.

4. Turn off push notification

Notification is a way to make using apps and some apps abuse this feature and users distract from the work. As you unlock your phone, tones of notification appear and popup on the screen which make you feel to open those and instead of completing your work, you ended up chatting with someone and lost focus.

Steps to turn off notification in android

1. Unlock your phone and open settings.
2. Now tap on Apps and notification.
3. Now search for the apps of which you want to stop notification and open it.
4. Toggle off the notification option to stop notification appearing on your mobile screen.
5. In this way, you can stop all the notification of the apps in your android phone.

These steps will hide notifications of apps. Now, if you want to resume those notification, you need to repeat whole sets of instrucions to toggle on the option.

if you don’t want to go through these steps and want to stop notification of that app then you can force stop that app.

How to force stop app in android

1. Unlock phone and open setting
2. Now scroll and tap on apps option to view all installed apps in your android phone]
3. Now search for the app and open it.
4. Here you will see two option, Fore stopped and Uninstall.
5. Tap on Force stopped.

In this way, you can force stop any app and stop that app to use internet data and notification will be stopped.

There is an alternate way to force stop apps with just one click i.e. by using an app. Here are the step by step guide to hibernate android apps in your smartphone.

How to hibernate apps on an android phone

1. Firstly open google play store, search for greenify app and install it
2. Now open it and choose the correct option from the on-screen instruction menu. Grant all the required permission to the app to make it work perfectly.
3. Now you will see “+” floating option, tap on it and select the apps that you want to hibernate automatically
4. Now click on three-dot and then go to setting.
5. Search for Always ignore background-free, and mark it on.
6. Now as you go to the homepage and add Greenify Hibernate Now widget

In this way, you can hibernate or force-stop apps in just one click.

5. Turn off WhatsApp group notification

Whatsapp is a good medium for communication where you can share notes, pdf, document, share messages and communicate. If we use it wisely, it can save time but if not, I can be the platform where we waste time. Whatsapp group are good to get connected and chat with your friends group but somtimes it cause distraction.

Step to turnoff WhatsApp group notification

1. Open WhatsApp on your smartphone. (android or iPhone)
2. Now, open WhatsApp group that you want to mute notification and then tap on the Group name
3. Here you will find the Mute Notification option, tap on it and you will find different options.
4. Select which suits you best and make sure you uncheck show notification
5. In this way, you can stop WhatsApp group notifications.

6. Uninstall useless apps and those who distract you most

More the apps you have installed in your smartphone, the more distracted you will be. So if the apps that are not useful for you not adding value to your day-to-day work, it is better to uninstall them.

7. Unfollow meme pages and leaves the Facebook group

Meme pages are for fun and nothing else and you can find enless number of meme pages on instagram and on Facebook. The problem with the meme pages and Facebook pages are, once you open and read a meme, you find it relatable which makes you feel like sharing it with your friends. You share those in your Instagram stories and in your WhatsApp group and from there you started a conversation with your friend over that meme.

This meme caption contains words like “Tag your best friend” “Tag your Bae” “Mention ravi, rahul and any random name” Which keeps you and your friend engaging. Once you do it, your friend will repeat the same and got stuck in this endless cycle.

Steps to leave Facebook Pages

Step 1 – Login Facebook account in your computer or app and scroll your Facebook feed.

Step 5 – Search for the post that contain i.e meme or news which can distract your and appeals you to open it.

Step 3 – Now click on three dots and then click on unfollow. (If unfollow option is not preset, do click on hide post ).

Unfollow meme pages on Instagram

1. Open Instagram and login to your account.
2. Now search and open Instagram meme or jokes pages.
3. Tap on unfollow.

if you are addicted to watching instagram reels then you want to be super productive then you should consider uninstalling Instagram app. Reels are really addictive.

8. Disable Facebook News Feed

The thing that of Facebook hooks us with the app is Facebook feed. Facebook and lots of other apps collect our data and show us news and feed based on our interests. So once a user opens and login to his Facebook account, he will get personalized ads, feeds and news of his/her interest and got lost in Facebook, ended up wasting time.

9. Schedule your work to Stop phone addiction

Scheduling your work is the most effective way to stay productive and not being distracted. It happens with me lots of time that when I have not scheduled the work or planned the work, I got distracted a lot.

After reading hell lots of books on productiviry and watching videos on the same, the thing that worked for me is scheduling and alloting work and task a specific time slot.

Allot time slot for checking emails, checking social media and reading news on smartphone and performs the task on the defined time slot will help you with not getting distracted.

Video on If You’re Addicted To Your Phone, Watch This by Jay Shetty

FAQ (Prevent smartphone addiction)

Wrapping Up

Remember, I am not a productivity geek or not achived something extraordinary that you should look up to me or follow me. The things I had shared in the Stop phone addiction to Increase productivity article are my personal methods that I had followed to make myself productive and reduce phone distraction.

I was scrolling to Quora and I found a question, What did you learn too late in life? I simply got hooked on this question and it forces me to think. I am not a billionaire or a millionaire, nor I had achieved anything that can motivate you or you should listen to. I am a chemical engineer who loves to blog and here are some learnings of my life that can still you can feel relatable.

Growing up in middle class family and having dream to do something big is a wide definition of me. Unlike every other person, ups and down in life had taught many lessons to me as well. Life in not only about studying hard and get a job and earning money. What I believe is working to make yourself financial freedom should be the purpose of life. Just think yourself as wealthy, independent, making your family happy and able to provide every necessity feels like.

You had read that if you do something wrong, you will get learnings but not everyone should get to the phase and not everyone can afford to fail. One can learn from others mistakes as well and can save time and energy from getting failed to get that learning. If enen 5% of person reading things that I think learn too late in life got benefited, I will be happy and with this thought, let us start this post.

Is Learning is Important in Life?

Yes, learning is always important and it is recommended that learning is important in any phase of life. World is running at its full pace and so do technology. Along with the time, things like technology, working culture and even human brain is evolving. Hence to match with the speed of time, we need to learn continually else you will remain behind of others.

What did you learn too late in life?

If I had to pen it down, there are lots of learning that i learn till now and are important as well as falls in to the section of learn too late in life. Let us take is positively as better than never. Now, without wasting more time, let’s us get into the lessons i learn too late in life.

IIT Tags matters.

I am a Chemical Engineer and the only thing that is wrong in my professional career is not to have a tag of IIT. I had completed my bachelor’s from an average university i.e. Gujarat Technological Universities.

If you are a person from the science stream or an engineer to be specific, you had either faced this or will. Some organizations only prefer IIT tags, so prior to getting into the interview, your opportunities are narrow down. The moment you scored less than the qualified marks in JEE examination, you will lose eligibility in some companies.

People don’t value you, they value money.

As I grow up, I start to encountering situation where people not giving preference to you. Sometime they just hate you but will talk sweet if you have money or a better financial status. What I feel is work on yourself and try to identify real friends who are with you for you and not for your money.

Money is like a Dettol, it can kill 99.9% of your problems.

If you are of the mentality that money can’t buy happiness then you must do the exercise that I ask you to do. Trust me, it will hardly take 3 minutes. Take out pen and paper, even your phone notes apps will work, and write down all the problems that you have in life and want to fix it. Now read two to three times and think about the only solution i.e. money. You will be amazed to see that most of the problems can be fixed or will not even arise if you have lots of money.

This is what the power of money. Even I belive that not every thing you can buy from money, but it money with which you can keep your family, loved ones happay and provide the basic needs like food, cloth and shelter. Money can give you finanacial freedom and for me freedom is happiness

One should focus on Self-Development

Self development can be the biggest thing that you can give it to yourself which will help you to be a completely amazing person. Self development is not only about reading self development books and over the night you become a better person. This is a life long process which takes time. Apart from reading, you need to incorporate in your life. This will help you to improve you as a person, improve your skills, knowledge and competencies.

Everyone must cultivate self-love

Closer ones will hurt you the most. You will experience once in a life for sure. A persons enters in your life will make you happy but not everyone are meant to remain in your life for life time. You will become powerful you don’t get hurt or don’t bother someone’s presence or absence.

Sometimes simple NO can save you from suffering.

It’s a human tendency that they want to be liked by everyone and in pleasing everyone we somewhere suffer us. Stop being  kind generous at the cost of your happiness.

A simple formula that I follow while saying no is, I think over the matter and talk to myself is this matters to me or I will do just to treat the person nicely? If the answer is no then I will say no and viseversa.

Saying direct no can also sound rude, so use gratitude work along with no but still not explain. Instead of no, you can use No, I have some other work to do.

There is nothing like a Passive income

Work at young age to enjoy life.

Work is essential to earn bread and butter and the person who work hard at initial stage of life, can enjoy life afterwards. If you don’t study at your initial days and choose to enjoy life, watching movies, chilling on Netflix, for the whole life you have to scarify comfort and you won’t have time to enjoy life as you had to work at same efficiency even you grow old. Instead if you choose to scarify free time at in your 20s, you will have more time in your 40s  where you can have all taste of life.

Work hard but not at the cost of sleep.

You might had heard a saying that is “A smooth sea never made a skilled sailor. Working hard is essential in order to get success but health is also an asset. Metal strength is also important. If you don’t take proper sleep, you won’t feel fresh and won’t get clear thoughts. So work hard but not at the cost of sleep. Take proper rest and optimized you time, manage your time. There in nothing like you don’t have time to sleep. The real problem is you are not managing your time properly. If you manage your time perfectly, you will get enough time to work and sleep.

Work contributes 99% in success and luck make 99% into 100%. Luck matters.

Not every things can works according to you. The things that are in your control is work and hardwork. Don’t make yourself fool by making excuses and find the reason not to work. Learn, work and execute to your level best and then leave it to the destiny.

Simple formula that I follow in my life is I understand that not all paramertes in getting successing in work are not in out hands. The thing which we can control is working on it so why to worry about the things that are not in your control.

There is no easy money, Long term investment is a key to create wealth.

Humans found attracted towards easy and comfortable things and in search of comfort we often go behind easy money. There is no easy money and if it really exist why the persons are working hard all over the globe to earn money. The only way to earn money is increase your knowledge and work hard. Don’t fall in the trap of easy money, you might end up getting into financial loss or in danger.

Knowledge can give you the power if you know how to apply it.

Motivational speeches, self development books are useless unless you don’t follow in real life. Reading self-help books and not executing is actually more dangerous then not reading and not implementing. Complete Reading self-help books, productivity podcast can make you feel that you had accomplished something by instead you need to think the other way that you had learned sometime and its time to work accordingly.

Practice meditation

Keeping body and mind calm is extremely important for your professional and personal life. When your body is calm you can think clearly and it improves your productivity. There are various benefits of meditation that one can’t think of it. So start meditating  

Time is slipping,

Everyone has Good and bad times, ups and downs in life but sitting aside and thinking why this happens to me won’t come up with solution. You need to have every taste of life so that you can value the good things. Always remember, whether it’s a good time or bad phase, it will past and you can’t do anything about it. What you can do is enjoy every phase, learn from those period and make yourself prepare for the upcoming phase.

My thought on lessons learned too late in life

Unlike reading motivational books, self help content will not help you unless you let that thoughts sink in your mind and start executing. Similarly learn the things from my mistakes, my learnings and work on your self to get a better version of you that you want to see tomorrow.

Summing Up

These were the things that can be considered as an answer to What did you learn too late in life?. Hope you get something from my lessons learned in life and you will learn valuable lessons from this and instead of learning from committing mistakes and then learn, will grab the learning and move forward in life. Don’t forget to share your thoughts on this question in the comment section.

What is Multilingual – Languages are the medium to communicate and to express our feelings. Languages are not limited to convey or receive messages, but it allows you to understand the culture of another person also. There are lots of benefits of being multilingual which we are going to discuss today in this article. Also, you will know how many languages do I know and what is the aim of mine regarding multilingualism. Before we jump into what is the Multilingual concept and types of multilingual. let us discuss languages in brief.

Languages are the medium to communicate and to express our feelings. Languages is not limited to convey or receive messages, but it allows you to understand culture of another person also. There are about 7000 languages spoken in the world and there are 195 countries in the world most of them have a different native language. I live in India and the official language of India is Hindi and the languages Included in the Eighth Schedule of the Indian Constitution are 22. Apart of the national language, there are More than 19,500 mother tongues spoken in India. This is only about India, if we consider whole world, there are lots of languange spoken over the world

As you step out of you home and travel few kilometers, you will encounter a person whoes mother tongue is different from yours and I can totally relate with this as I live in India which has the most diverse culture.

What is Multilingualism | What is Multilingual definitions

Multilingual can be define as Multi meand Many and lingual means language. Multiligual on whole mean somthing that has many languages. If we can someone is multilingual, it refer as that person can speak many languages.

Types of Multilingual

• Monolingual: A person knowing only one language
• Bilingual: A person using or able to use two languages especially with equal fluency
• Trilingual: A person speaking three languages fluently
• Quadrilingual: A person who speaks more than four languages
• Polyglot: Someone with a high degree of proficiency in several languages

1. Monolingual definition

A person knowing only one language or speaking only one language

2. Bilingual definition

A person knows or use two languages with equal fluency

3. Trilingual definition

A person who knows or speak three languages

4. Quadrilingual  definition

A person who speaks four languages

5. Polyglot definition

 Someone with proficiency in several languages or more can speak more than 5 languages.

Multilingual Benefits | Why I aim to be Quadrilingual

Regardless to the domain you are working on, or you are not a professional translator, multilingual you will always in benefit. If will give you the freedom to know other cultures, help you to read and learn books, newspaper, or scripture written in other languages.

I know, 3 languages currently, Hindi, Gujarati, and English. I can read, write, and speak all the there languages. As a hobby, I had started learning french and this language falls under the top most spoken languages and I know, there is nothing wrong with learning a new language. So my aim is to be fluent in English as I am in Hindi and Gujarati and also learn french.

Wrapping Up

There are lots of Benefits of Multilingualism which will not only help you unlock new career opportunities and also helps you to have a new perspective on life. Develop a hobby of learning a new language or incase you are migrated to a country then do learn the regional language, it will surely benefit you. I am aiming to be Quadrilingual to get a degree of profesincy in speaking Hindi, Gujarat, English and French.

Devghat waterfall – as the name suggests, Dev means God and Ghat means mountain pass – is purely a natural beauty situated at umarpada district surat a bit away but not too far from Dediyapada – Netrang Highway. It is famous for obviously waterfall and forest area, the path to go to devghat waterfall is passing through the dense forest and it is amazing where you can see dense and tall trees on both sides of the road.

I, Ronak Prajapati had visited Devghat waterfall in the month of October with my office mate. That was a bike ride, we actually ride bike from Bharuch and Ankleshwar to devghat waterfall. The best time to visit Devghat Waterfall is October and September when you won’t get too heavy rain as heavy rain can ruin your experience.

Here by I am sharing some photos to Devghat waterfall Umarpada and video that I had shooted. Picture of side scenery are also attached to show you guyz how awesome will be the journey if you try bike riding.

Wrapping Up

These are some pictures and videos from our trip. If you like travelling and especially water, we recommend you to visit with your friends and family and you won’t regret the visit. Concrete share are made where you can sit and have lunch if you had bring with you. We had seen people who bring all the required thing to cook food like kerosene operated stove, vegetable rice and etc. The best thing you can cook here is Khichadi and can enjoy with curd.

This was my trip with my office mates, but shortly I will plant to visit this place with my family and we will also cook food here. Consider following us, I will attach photos of Family trip to Devghat also.

Direction to Devghat Waterfall – Devghat waterfall location

Self love techniques and how to love yourself

“I love me.” How often do you say this? Never!! Or say a very few times in comparison to “I love you.”

My question to us is that why can’t we love ourselves as much as we can love others. Let’s face it, we all have spent a good period of our lives loving and caring about others which often leave us lacking in loving ourselves. Today, we will explore some self love techniques that will force you to learn how to love yourself first and learn how to practice self love

Self Love Meaning – What is self love

Self-love is one of those core feelings which should be nurtured by every human being, I repeat, every human being.

As a matter of fact, for many of us, Self-love might sound like a luxury rather than a necessity, to those I would like you to ask that exactly in the midnight, when the dark clouds of loneliness and failure surround you and you just can’t stop weeping, who comes to your escape. Of course you, you are the one who recollects all the broken pieces of your heart, instill the thoughts of positivity and prepare yourself for the next day.

So yes, you deserve all the love, the world possesses. Yes, you are worth it. 

Self-love is falling in love with yourself first, to choose yourself even when others refuse to. It is about being deliberate in taking time for yourself for the betterment of your mind, body, and soul. Self-love is important because to love ourselves is to recognize the full spectrum of our potentials. It is about replenishing and refreshing your spirit in different ways.

According to Psychology – Self-love is the secret key for mental health and well being, keeping depression and anxiety at bay.

Hence always learn to love yourself because, at the end of the day, you’re all you’ve got.

Let’s make our self-love game strong by indulging ourselves into these self love techniques & habits.

1. Believe yourself – This may sound a routine sentence which has been said to you by umteen people but mark my words believing in yourself works.
2. Forgive yourself – Understand that you are a human and humans do make errors. So, in spite of blaming yourself for everything, learn to forgive yourself.
3. Replenish yourself with positive thoughts. – Start your morning by saying at least five positive sentences about yourself. Compliment yourself for doing and looking good.
4. Stay motivated – Listening to motivational speeches, podcasts, and TED talks will instantly motivate you.
5. Learn to say NO – It’s absolutely fine to say NO to someone or something your conscious doesn’t allow you for or you are not happy while doing it.
6. Learn from your mistakes – Tell yourself that there are no bad decisions, there are only lessons.
7. Practice self-talks – Sometimes talking to oneself is the best therapy needed.
8. Understand, Value, and express your feelings – Many times we are unable to understand our own feelings. So, firstly learn to recognize your feelings, value, and express them at the correct time.
9. Take care of your mind, body, and soul – Be sure to take out some time to read out a book. Indulge yourself in any sort of physical activity you love, be it strength training, yoga, dancing, or even swimming. Say goodbye to a sedentary lifestyle.  Also, try your hand in meditation, it works wonders.
10. Accept that no one is perfect. So give yourself that liberty and instead of chasing perfection choose progress.
11. Surround yourself with your loved ones. – Spend some quality time with your family and friends. Also think twice to ask for their support and guidance whenever required.
12. Comprehend your self- worth- ‘Charity begins at home’. So do yourself a favor, analyze your importance first and the world will recognize it automatically.
13. Never ever compare yourself – Understand that you are one of your own kind. You are UNIQUE.
14. Immediately separate yourself from negative thoughts, people and toxic relationships.
15. Pursue your hobbies – Take out some time from your busy schedule to do what you love. Try to develop a new skill you always have desired for and due to time and other restraints it took a back seat.
16. Make peace with your past – Everybody has a past. So instead of hiding the scars of your past and being shameful of them, accept them. Realize that there are things that are not in your hands.
17. Spend some time in nature – Beauty of nature has the proficiency to instantly uplift your mood. So try this one out.
18. Stop wasting your time to impress others – Be yourself. In the process of impressing others, there are high chances of yours missing out on your individuality, and still, the other person might not approve of you. So think twice!
19. Be consistent – Don’t stop! Every day take a step forward to achieve your goal(s). After all ‘Slow and steady the race’.
20. Smile often.

Wrapping Up

These are the ultimate 20 self love techniques that I recommend you to cultivate. Practice self-love and encounter positivity developed in yourself. These powerful ways to practice self-love will build a solid foundation of inner power which will give a new perspective to your vision. Make sure to share your how to practice self love tips in the comment section so that it can reach to others also.